We grieve with you over the loss and much too early separation from James David.
We did not know James David, but we regret the sorrow you feel - we grieved the lost a son because of a motorcycle accident who was a year older than your son. We can tell you that as time passes you will be able to remember more of the good times and dwell less on your loss. We found that each person grieves in a different way and at different times, so we encourage each of you to allow for those differences in your families.
We are of the Christian faith and as we dealt with our pain we came to understand that God is still sovereign. May you find comfort as you walk through this “valley of the shadow of death” and may friends share their good memories of James David with you.